On Saturday August 8, 2009,
Cobb said:
Tim,
Jen was a good friend of mine and I have wonderful memories of our fun times together. She loved you so much and considered herself so lucky to have met you. While you must be physically and emotionally exhausted, I know you will be an amazing father to Josh, Keely and Spencer. Jen chose you for a reason. Wrapping you in love and prayers.
Cobb and family
On Sunday August 9, 2009,
Brad Bowslaugh said:
Dear Tim, Josh, Keely & Spencer,
We will always remember Jen's warm smile & infectious laugh. Her time here on earth was too short. Know that you remain in our hearts & thoughts.
Brad, Jenn & Nyah Bowslaugh
West St Paul, MB, Canada
On Sunday August 9, 2009,
Mark and Kylie Iles said:
What do you say to a family that have lost so much? 'I'm sorry' just doesn't seem enough. Jen will be missed greatly, though we have many fond memories of her hospitality, kindness, love and understanding. There are very few people on this earth with such a kind and beautiful soul as Jen. Tim, feel Jen's arms around you and the kids through these tough times, and feel her warmth, love and tears when you are experiencing the joys that are to come in the future.
Like an angel she graced this earth for such a short time ... though, like an angel, she will remain in spirit forever.
All our love to you and your families at this sad time.
Mark, Kylie, Hayden and Danielle Iles
XOX
On Sunday August 9, 2009,
Rowan & Dani McCreery said:
An absolutely beautiful lady, taken from this earth way too soon. Jen, you will be missed so badly. Rest peacefully and free from pain.
xx
On Sunday August 9, 2009,
Danielle Whitfield said:
Dear Tim and the Boekeman family. I have always found it amazing that two people from opposite sides of the world could find in each other their soul mate and the one that made them complete. Jen had such a beautiful smile. She was so kind and wise beyond her years and she allways seemed so trusting and happy in the life that she had made with you Tim, even though it took her so far away from her own family. Years ago when I stayed up with you in Dally, Jen was a relative newcomer and yet she had already made so many wonderful friends and had so much respect within the community which is testamony to her character. You were so lucky to have found each other and share so many good times. I know that you will miss her forever Tim, and in some ways I wish I could take away the ache in your heart, but that would mean that you never got to fall in love with each other in the first place, and that love just seemed so meant to be. You will continue to be a beautiful father to your children and she will allways be looking out for you and them. An angel on earth and now an angel in heaven. Take care Boekman family. Danielle Whitfield.
On Sunday August 9, 2009,
Lesley & Troy Boekeman said:
Tim, Josh, Keely and Spencer, we are thinking of you. Jen was such a special lady and although her time here was short it was filled with many special moments. She will be missed but always remembered through you all. Our love, Lesley, Troy, Jade & Cody Boekeman
On Sunday August 9, 2009,
Anegla, Damien, Charlie and Harvey Mills said:
Dear Tim, Josh, Keely and Spencer, Words cannot ease the pain and loss you have endured but we hope your memories you have will help ease some of that. Jen was a wonderful friend who will always be remembered by the people who were lucky enough to know her. I will miss you Jen.
On Monday August 10, 2009,
Sheila Marlow said:
Tim, Josh, Keely, Spencer and Jen's extended family,
Jennifer was such an amazing person and I have so many fond memories of times spent with her. She touched so many people in so many ways. Celebrate all the wonderful things she was and take comfort in them. My thoughts, prayers and love to all of you!
Sheila Marlow (Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada)
On Monday August 10, 2009,
Lisa Couling said:
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I have known Jen and her family since childhood growing up in Alexander together. She did have the most infectious laugh and you just felt good being in her presence. I can still hear her giggle. She will be missed.
Rest in peace Jennifer.
Lisa, Garry, Ryan and Zach Couling
Airdrie, Alberta, Canada
On Monday August 10, 2009,
James Barnett said:
Tim,
I wish I could express my thoughts and feelings but just don't have the words. Wish I could be there. I loved Jen as you know and frankly I don't know anyone that met her, even just for a short time, that didn't think extremely highly of her. You two are an amazing couple with three great children. A phrase that has got me through some tough times is "Celebrate Life". Never could there be a truer statement than with Jen. Please keep this in mind on Thursday. I will never forget her smile and laughter. Know that I will raise a glass to her Thursday night and be thinking of you and the kids. I was looking forward to a future time that we could all spend some time together. Hope to see you and the kids sometime in the future. Squeeze the kids for me and stay strong. Most of all Tim, thank you for the life you gave her. I know it was an amazing one. James
On Monday August 10, 2009,
Valerie Voth said:
Hi
I am Jennifer's cousin. I cried when I got the news about her cancer and cried even harder about her passing. Now I have tears in my eyes reading all the beautiful messages and comments that people are leaving in her memory. We are only one year apart and I have so many fond memories from when we were just little kids. Our family would travel to Manitoba in the summers and there was always so much to look forward to. Jennifer and I would just bond upon arrival and after the first day, we were pretty much attached at the hip for the next couple of weeks. She was always so fun to talk to and so genuine and so open about talking about anything. I remember one particular night sleeping in a metal frame bed at the farm in Manitoba. There was a thunderstorm and it was raining really hard. It is still so clear in my head. We talked practically all night about all sort of things, shared secrets and talked about whatever girly stuff that 9 year old girls think about.
It is so sad to lose such a wonderful person. There is comfort in knowing that she is with the Lord. Doesn't mean we miss her any less though. I pray for continued strength for her family and friends.
Love Valerie
On Monday August 10, 2009,
Craig Shanks said:
Tim, Joshua, Keely and Spencer;
Although I never had the pleasure to meet your 3 lovely children, I know how heartbroken they must be at this time. Jen worked for me for a number of years and was a wonderful person, who seemed to brighten every room she walked into. I followed her health struggles through my sister-in-law who knew the entire McEvoy family. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are will you all at this most difficult time.
Craig and Nancy Shanks
Brandon, Manitoba, Canada
On Monday August 10, 2009,
Tarsh Gould said:
Tim, Josh, Keely and Spencer words will never truly express how lovely Jen was and how much she will be missed by all of those who knew her. I always thought of Jen as a true lady - something hard to find these days. She has left behind 3 amazing kids who will no doubt make sure pieces of Jen can live on. We will miss seeing Jen "hanging out" with the kids and Tim as we put the crop in next door. Goodbye Jen. Love Tarsh, Dan and Linkin xxx
On Monday August 10, 2009,
Erin Cox said:
Its so unfair, it's just not right, yet you put up one inspirational fight. You will be missed more than words can say, and know we'll meet again some day. So rest in peace my beautiful friend, you're still in our hearts, we love you Jen xo
Tim, Josh, Keely and Spencer we are so sorry for your loss, Jen was just wonderful. Stay strong. Love the Cox family
On Monday August 10, 2009,
Steve, Brandie & Kai Allan said:
Dear Tim, Josh, Keely & Spencer.
Words are not enough. Jen was a lovely person who touched us all. We will miss her terribly. Love Steve, Brandie & Kai
On Monday August 10, 2009,
annamarie rausch said:
words fail me.What can I say that hasn't already been said. Jen was a beautiful person inside and out. She always had a ready smile and a cheery hello. Tim, Josh, Keely, Spencer rest easy knowing Jen is always with you in your hearts. Love from Lee, Anna, Tristan and Sebastian Rausch.
On Monday August 10, 2009,
Andrea Quesnelle & Gary Marchanton said:
Over the past 10 years, there have been many times I have marveled at how Jen and I have lived such parallel lives -- two Canadian girls swept off our feet by Aussie boys, we both got married (within months of each other) then took the plunge and moved to the opposite side of the world. We’ve had countless conversations about raising our babies so far away from our own families, about the excitement of planning visits home to Canada, about the disappointment of missing out on far away family events but at the same time, the joy of now having two wonderful places to call home. More than anyone, Jen understood, appreciated and related to my situation. Jen was my tiny piece of home here on the opposite side of the globe. And so, Jen, I will miss you, my friend! No matter which side of the world I’m on, I will think of you and smile.
Tim, Josh, Keely and Spencer – we’re thinking about you constantly and wishing there was something we could do to help you through this most horrible of times. Sadly, we cannot make your loss feel any less but I hope there is some comfort in knowing that we’re here for you and would be honoured to support you in any way we can, now and always.
On Monday August 10, 2009,
Carol & Don Hawking, Onanole, Manitoba said:
We feel truly blessed to have had Jennifer in our lives. Always a best friend to our daughter, she became a good friend to us as well. Working and living with Jen for two summers, we learned to love her the way we love our own daughters. We cherish the memories of our trip to Oz to visit Jennifer and her family, and also the visits home to Manitoba. We hope those visits don't stop. Tim, Josh, Keely & Spencer - words can never express how sorry we are. But we do know that heaven will be a much happier place with Jennifer in it. Love Mum H. & DK
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Liza Harvey said:
I have such lovely memories of Jen. We met in that unique moment when we were both expecting our baby boys and had so much to talk about. We will miss that bubbly laugh and also sharing the sheer joy of watching our kids play and develop together over time. I'll remind Tim of your thoughts about boarding school should he ever ask! Our love and prayers to Tim, Joshua, Keely, Spencer and also Pam and Bill and the extended McEvoy Boekeman families from the Harveys- your Scarborough neighbours.
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Kev & Jenny Sawyer said:
Tim, Josh, Keely & Spencer. Tim it seems like only yesterday we travelled halfway around the world to share in the love and joy of your wedding vows. Such a short time together, continue to be strong, you will cherish watching your children grow. Dearest Georgina and Albert oh so far but be comforted by the thought that Jen has been in loving hands. The love, strength and support of the Boekeman family runs deep. God bless Kevin & Jenny Sawyer.
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Jenn and Kevin Cullen and Family said:
I met Jen thru Jenn's brother Ken...he is married to my sister Patti. Upon meeting her is was so easy to visit, share and laught with her. It was so nice to always be invited for a visit with the Bokeman family everytime they were in Canada. My heart ached when I heard of Jen's diagnosis and I prayed often for her strength and for her family. I have no idea what it means to lose a spouse, a sister a mom, or a child, but it breaks my heart to think of this happening to Tim and his kids, and to the McEvoys. I guess the big guy upstairs knew what he was doing bringing Jen and Tim together, he knew that those kids would be left wtih a wonderful father and extended family, and that none of the people in Jen's life would ever let her memory fade. My thoughts and prayers are with you all daily and I will remember Jen for the vibrant, funny, loving, and beautiful friend, mom, wife, sister, daughter that she will always be!
Jenn Cullen
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Bonnie Dobbie said:
Dearest Tim and family. No words could ever express what and how you and your family are coping - but I do believe in getting through day by day and sometimes it's just hour by hour or even minute by minute. I am truly sorry that I never got to know your children or yourself for that manner. As you probably know, Jen and I grew up a mile down the road and then lived together in Brandon for 3-4 years. We had a lot of fun growing up - skating in the winter and of course her Dad drove the school bus. My memories of her are when we were children growing up, playing crazy games, babysitting in Alexander, and then living together in our first apartment where we shared a 1 bedroom with 2 single beds. You can imagine the clothes - couldn't see the floor for 6 months. Regardless, I could go on and on and I have wonderful memories, and we had good chats via
E-mail. Her family is strong, as I'm sure your family is too. Don't ever let them forget her mother and that laugh (we both have the same one). I know I'll surely miss her. Now she's with you all the time - watching over you - no pain. No suffering. I'll miss her.
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Stacey Wakewich said:
Tim, Josh, Keely and Spencer ~ Growing up with Jen has left me with many wonderful memories that I will always treasure. I looked forward to our visits when she was back in Canada for I knew she would have me laughing continuously! I am thankful that I had the opportunity to meet all three children and see what a beautiful family Jen has. Tim, I am also grateful that the children have a wonderful father to help them through some of the tough times ahead. My thoughts are with your family as well as the McEvoy family here in Canada. Pull your strength from memories of Jen.XOXO
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Arleigh Mouck (Barnett) said:
Tim and family - Although I didn't know Jen that well, what I did know of here was that she was a truly genuine person - an awesome gem. Her warmth, smile and vibrant personality always made me feel welcome. I only have the very fondest memories of her.... my most sincere sympathy goes out to you and your family.
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Dewayne Snider said:
My thoughts go out to Jennifer's family and friends. Jennifer was a good friend and she will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers from an old friend.
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Sherice Claridge said:
Tim, Josh, Keely & Spencer;
There are truly no words that can be said to describe how my heart breaks for you and the kids. I struggle every day to come to terms with Jen’s passing and try to make some sense out of it. I haven’t been able to do that just yet, but this much I know, Heaven is a better place because our girl is there. Her struggles are over and she may now live forever in our hearts. I have had an amazing friendship with Jen and am thankful for every minute, memory and experience we have shared together. She was so much more than just a friend to me and I will hold her memory in my heart forever. I am very thankful that Jen met you Tim and created three wonderful kids. Jen’s spirit and light will forever live on in Josh, Keely & Spencer. I wish I could take some of the hurt away, but please have comfort in knowing that I will always be here for you and support you and the kids in any way I can. With Love, Sherice & Duane Claridge, Brandon, MB Canada
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Stewart and Maggie Harrison said:
our thoughts and prayers have been with you on this long and difficult year. I felt so much for Jen having come from another country and family so far away and also having cancer myself at a young age is devastating. Jen will be with you always through your Children and they will feed your soul. Take care love Maggie and Stewart
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
David, Tanya & Ashlyn Marshall said:
I have a lot to be thankful in knowing Jen. Her and I became roomates, and soon after she was my dear friend and role model. Just before marrying Tim, she introduced me to my husband. For that I am eternally grateful. We have shared our joys in love, marriage, and children. She had the kindest heart and could always make us laugh. You will be sadly missed Jen, we love you. To Tim, Joshua, Keely, Spencer, the Boekeman's and McEvoy's-our hearts and tears have been with you along this journey and we wish you strength. Tim-it is a beautiful message you have written. We will be with you in spirit this Thursday and present at her service here. Lots of love.
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Jennie Hawking, Renu Varshney, Kimberly Carroll said:
Words cannot adequately express the profound sadness we feel about losing Jen – how can we summarize a lifetime of memories with our beautiful friend – where do we begin?
Our dearest Niffer…thank-you for being our "best friend in the world" for 23 years…through all the joys and sorrows that time has entailed. From Neelin High in Brandon to visiting you in Oz, from "Dirty Dancing" at sweet 16 to becoming "Aunties" to your 3 little ones, from sharing precious tears to laughing until our sides hurt...our times with you were some of the best ever.
Tim – we will be forever thankful to Jennifer that she brought you into our lives – it has been wonderful to get to know you and the kids over the years. You have been an amazing partner & father, as well as a great friend to each of us, which has been especially apparent this past year.
Josh, Keely & Spencer – we are always going to be your 3 crazy aunties and we are there to share our memories of your mom with you – we have TONS of fun stories!
We extend our sincere condolences to the McEvoys and the Boekemans and thank you all for being so strong, loving, & supportive.
We already miss you so much, our dearest Jen, but "The 4 of Us" will always live on in our hearts. WE LOVE YOU.
xo, Jennie, Renu, & Kim
P.S. But, no…we still aren’t going to call you Chuck. ; )
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Callan and Wendy Fergusson said:
Dear Tim, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Thinking of Jen Callan can remember the countless times that Billy, Ken and him would crash at Jen and Alison's house after Houstons and of course all going for breakfast beforehand - good times.
We are deeply saddened by Jen's passing and feel for all of Jen's family and friends both in Canada and Australia.
It will be the little things that you will remember, the quiet moments,
the smiles, the laughter. And although it may seem hard right now,it will be the memories of these little things
that help to push away the pain
and bring the smiles back again.
Callan, Wendy & girls.
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Wes, Loretta, Lorena, Kevin & Derek Williamson said:
Tim, we met so briefly, yet you and Jen did so much for us. When our son went to Australia we knew he had friends in you and Jennifer. We felt comforted knowing that the young woman we had watched grow up here in Alexander Manitoba Canada would be a mother not only to her family but to our son as well.
Jennifer has touched the hearts of so many people around the world. This was meant to be, even in the short time she had on this earth. Despite the pain and loose you feel, know that you are the love of her life, her one and only and she will be with you in spirit forever. Together you have brought three beautiful children into this world and through them Jennifer has given you the most priceless gift of all. Her love and the very essence of her soul. Despite the pain and emptiness you feel now, you have been blessed and will continue to be blessed through your family.
We share your loss Tim, and our hearts ache for you. But you are that special person Jennifer has chosen to keep her memory alive forever and you will find the strength to live life to the fullest because we all know that is what Jennifer would wish.
May God bless you, and care for you and your family now and forever.
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Bev (Cross) Holloway said:
Jenn and I went to the same little country school in Manitoba, and our mothers are friends. Jennifer helped me invaluably with immigration advice to Australia, after I too, met an Australian man and moved here. I'll remember Jenn's dry sense of humour, her quest to find perogies Down Under, and her beautiful handmade Christmas cards. I'll remember how she enjoyed visiting us here on our farm in Victoria, Australia, and I'll remember her love for Tim, and her kids. Her spirit lives on in all of us.
Wishing Tim, Josh, Keely, and Spencer Boekeman; and Georgina & Albert, Alison, Ken, and Bill McEvoy and families, much strength and courage...
Bev (Cross) Holloway & Andrew, Jack, & Janie
She became part of fog mist and night wind,
She became part of sea spray and waves,
She became part of rain and storm,
She became part of sunshine and clear sky,
She became part of night and part of day,
She became part of winter and part of summer,
She became part of spring and part of fall,
She became part of all Creation,
She will never abandon you.
from Anne Cameron - Daughters of Copper Woman
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Nehal Sheth said:
Dear Tim and family,
We are very sorry for the loss. No words can heal the pain that you feel But just remember, Death ends a life, not relationship.
From Megha Sheth and family at St John's School.
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Ashley and Sally Sanderson said:
It is because Jen was so special that she has touched so many. In her life, and now, so sadly with grief. What a gorgeous girl. We are thinking of you Tim.
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Renae Visser said:
Tim, Josh, Keely and Spencer. Our thoughts are with you during this very difficult and sad time. We can not imagine Dally without Jen there, it will never be the same. She was a true friend to everyone. May her generous spirit and kind heart live on through everyone who knew her. Kim, Renae, Shayna, Bradley and Taryn Visser
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Wanda Coad said:
To Dear Tim, Joshua, Keely and Spencer,
I was so saddened to hear of the loss of your beautiful Jen, your beloved wife and your devoted mother. Jen will always remain in the hearts of those who knew her. I will always remember her compassion, her kind nature and her friendliness. I feel so lucky to have known Jen and to have experienced her friendship. May Jen's strength and love remain with you all forever. Love from Wanda xxxoooxxxooo
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Yvonne AnderSon said:
I first met Jen down the main street in Dalwallinu,and was drawn to her accent and laugh,I will remember her always,what a beautiful person we have lost,my deepest sympathy to Tim,and the family.
On Tuesday August 11, 2009,
Lisa & Daniel Bryant said:
Dear Tim, Even though I only knew Jen for a few years, I feel so fortunate to have been able to call her my friend. I will always cherish my memories of drinking iced tea and catching up while watching 'the girls' run amuck. Missing Jen and thinking of you, Josh, Keely and Spencer in this sad time. Love Lisa, Daniel, Trinity, Bella and Ashton Bryant
On Wednesday August 12, 2009,
Painters said:
Dear Tim, Josh, Keely & Spencer.
Our hearts and thoughts are with you all. Jen touched so many lives and her smile will endure in everyone's hearts.
Julie, Darren, Brooke, Dale, Sean & Catriarna Painter
On Wednesday August 12, 2009,
Kevin Wallis said:
Tim, Jen as you know was a special person. When she worked for Greg and I she always gave a 100%. When she smiled it was with her eyes and heart, I can still hear her laugh. I could tell at your wedding how much you loved each other and how happy you made Jen. Take care of your children and know there will always be a part of her in them. My heart goes out to you, the children and families during this difficult time. Jen will be with you forever. Take care, love Kevin
On Wednesday August 12, 2009,
Kathy Dobbin said:
Dear Tim, Words don't seem enough. It is difficult believe that Jen was needed somewhere more than with you, Josh, Keely and Spencer. I didn't know Jen well but she was always a friendly and happy person when we did meet. You have been amazing thru this past year. The love and support you've given Jen and your children and still having the strength to attend to other matters has been an inspiration to everyone. I sincerely wish peace and happiness for you and your family in the years to come. Love Kathy
On Wednesday August 12, 2009,
Gillian Speelman said:
Dear Tim and families,
Although we have never met in person Tim, I send my condolences on behalf of myself and the entire Speelman family. Jen was an absolutely wonderful person and will be dearly remembered by many. I too can hear her laugh!
Jen and I grew up seeing each other for quite a few summers and referred to ourselves as "cousins". Although we were not really sure how Albert and my late mother Janice were related, we were elated to have relative nearby. Well the cycle continues to this day as my daughter Amy plays with Alison's daughter Alexandria, both are age 11 and they too call themselves "cousins"! Our family holds many memories of Jen's great visits. Jen's spirit will live on strong and may you find strength in that. Please know you and your family are in the thoughts of many right now. Our condolences.
Love all the Speelmans & Crews
On Wednesday August 12, 2009,
Hamish Varshney said:
Dear Tim,
I am very sorry to hear about the passing of Jen. Jen was so kind and pleasant. I will always remember her as one of my sister Renu's best friends. My fondest memory of her was when she used to work at a video store many years ago in Brandon and one afternoon brought some Nintendo games to my house for me to play. And she stayed all afternoon and played them with me. I cannot fathom what you must be going through, however, just like Jen, you too are an amazing person. I know you have the strength in these hard times. My condolences to you, Josh, Keely, and Spencer.
On Wednesday August 12, 2009,
Cindy, John and Sadie Yanyk said:
Well Jen, John and I truly believe that our paths crossed for a reason. We had no idea what we were getting ourselves into when John accepted a Harvester Tech position somewhere in Australia! When we met the kind, Canadian girl we knew that it would all be o.k. We had fun moments giving Tim hard times about the aussie ways! You have made such great memories of Oz with us, we are truly thankful. We have grown very close to to your family as well as both the Boekeman and McEvoy families. We are thankful for this--you are all such beautiful people. Tim, how can we find the words to express our sorrow for your great loss. Remember your special moments and when you look at the kids, know that they are miracles of only you and Jen. Josh, Keely and little Spencer, we know that you each shared many special moments with your Mom. We wish we were there with you to give you big hugs. You are all in our prayers-to change the sorrow to precious memories. Cindy, John and Sadie: Oakburn, Manitoba, Canada
On Wednesday August 12, 2009,
Corie Lobwein said:
Even though Jen had been sick for such a long time, it is still hard to accept her passing. She was such an amazing person who touched the lives of so many. We will cherish the memories and smile about the times we spent together. My heart goes out to you Tim, Josh, Keely and Spencer along with Jen's family. Such a beautiful friend, a loving mother, wife and daughter, We will miss her terribly. Our love to you all - John, Corie, Paige and Mitch Lobwein.
On Wednesday August 12, 2009,
Amanda Martin said:
Dear Tim, Josh, Keely and Spencer, we were so sad to hear of the passing of your beautiful wife and mother. Jen was a thoughtful, kind and gracious friend who will be missed by all who knew her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Brad, Amanda, Chloe and James Martin
On Wednesday August 12, 2009,
Karen Christian said:
Jen, God looked around his garden And He found an empty place. And then He looked down upon the earth, And saw your tired face. He put His arms around you, And lifted you to rest. God's garden must be beautiful, He always takes the best. He knew that you were suffering, He knew you were in pain. He saw the road was getting rough, And the hills were hard to climb, So He closed your weary eyelids, And whispered "Peace be thine." It broke our hearts to lose you. But you didn't go alone, For part of us went with you, The day God called you home. RIP My Friend.
Tim, Josh, Keely, Spencer & Family, Jen and I shared a few minutes talking just recently, she talked about her loving family she spoke about Josh's love to kick the football, and how she really had encouraged Tim to go kick the football, and to keep the promises to do simple things. She mentioned that she had not been able to spend anytime with the children that day, but hearing them play in the house gave her joy. But most of all her ability to still shine through all the pain is an inspiration to us all. You will be missed. Neville & Karen, Corey & Dayna Christian
On Thursday August 13, 2009,
Shannon said:
i will always remember Jen from Neelin High School as a beautiful young woman with the never ending smile.
On Thursday August 13, 2009,
Dave Baker said:
Greetings friends & family of Jennifer...
I met Jen through another wonder woman friend of mine, Kimberley. At that time I was just starting my career as a camera person, shooting news at CKX in Brandon.
I will always remember Jen as one heck of a two-stepper. Kimberly, Jen and I were out at the local cowboy watering hole and despite just meeting, she agreed to risk her toes and take a turn on the dance floor with me.
In my business you meet a lot of people. For me this is the best part of the job and main reason for what I do.
Jen is one of those people whom you meet and never forget. Each time our paths would cross at some random point in life's time line, she always smiled and exchanged a word or two as if no time had pasted between this moment and the last one we'd shared even if weeks had passed in between.
I know Kimberly perhaps a little better Jen. Ms. K at the time often appeared in my viewfinder, always with memorable results. However the best way to know anyone is by the company they keep.
I am very sorry for our loss of Jennifer. Anyone able to be Kimberly's 'wing man' at a cowboy saloon definitely is made of the right stuff!
My thoughts and prayers to all, who like me, met and remember this bright little point of light in the universe. We are lesser today without you and yet better for having known you.
Walk in Beauty,
David S. Baker
On Thursday August 13, 2009,
Clint Munro said:
Tim, I can remember spending time with you and Jen the first year you met in Manitoba. I can hear Jens laugh and response after you and I making some boyish joke...."oh ...you guys". Although we have not been able see you both too often in recent times, Jens happy personality and the genuine friendship of you both as a couple has been a constant I have valued over the years. You have been fortunate to have met Jen and build a family together. Our thoughts are with you all this week and we will raise a glass to the happy memories of Jen.
On Thursday August 13, 2009,
Dan and Marg Speers said:
Dear Tim, Josh, Keely and Spencer,
Words cannot begin to express the sadness we feel for all of you at this sad time. Please accept our condolences for your loss, as we remember a wonderful young wife, mother and friend. May the strength of family and friends help you through the days-weeks ahead. As neighbouring farm families, we saw Jen grow from the young farm gal to a bubbly teen-ager to a confident young woman. Our Canadian loss was Dally's gain as she moved to make her life and home half way around the world. Please pass our condolences to the rest of the Boekeman family. Dan and Marg.
On Thursday August 13, 2009,
Bernadette Harmer said:
Words cannot describe how much you will be missed.To a wonderful wife, mother and friend. Thank you for the few times we shared, the love you gave, the way you cared. No longer in our lives to share, but in our hearts you will always stay. Loved and remembered everyday. Memories are for ever, Another beautiful rose in gods garden, he only picks the best.
On Thursday August 13, 2009,
Joan and Ron Thompson said:
Tim and Family
Our condolences for your loss. Jennifer was a wonderful person with a great smile and a great attitude towards life. We were privileged to watch her grow from a wee girl to a wonderful wife and mother. She will be missed.
On Thursday August 13, 2009,
Cindy Poncsak said:
Tim, Josh, Keely, Spencer,
I will cherish the memories of visits out to the farm growing up, catching up with Jen whenever we had a chance in person or email. I'm so thankful we were able to get together last year when you were here. All the kids had so much fun at "PlayTime." I will miss her. It is a comfort to know she is no longer in pain and is at peace. Take Care of each other. Hugs to all.
Cindy, Shawn & Kendra Poncsak-Brandon, MB Canada
On Thursday August 13, 2009,
Michelle Fong said:
Dear Tim, I feel so lucky to have had Jen as a friend and will cherish all the laughs we had, she made me feel so welcome when I moved to Dally. She was beautiful in every way and will always be in our hearts. She will forever be missed. We are all thinking of you, Joshua, Keely and Spencer in this sad time. Love Ryan, Michelle, Ryley & Alyssa Fong xxx
On Thursday August 13, 2009,
Cheryl Roberts (Kostecki) said:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We hope that time will ease the painful emptiness in your hearts. Our deepest condolences to all Jen's family and friends all over the world. Cheryl, Vance and family
On Friday August 14, 2009,
Cobb said:
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
On Friday August 14, 2009,
lyn mcquillan said:
Dear Tim & Family, I got to know Jen well from when she first come out to visit Tim & we could always pickup from where we left off even if it was months in between seeing each other, Jen was a lovely person that always made you feel welcomed, she will always be in my heart, I can always hear her saying you know lyn is that right, I have good memories and she will be missed. p.s. the funeral did her proud.
On Friday August 14, 2009,
Atkinson Family Canada said:
Hello Tim and Family
I sent this message to your home email the day we heard the news. Not sure if you have had time to check it out so I'm forwarding on to you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and this difficult time. (see below)
It is with heavy heart tonight that we have heard the news about Jennifer. We are so sorry that Jen was unable to win her battle - she put up quite a fight. I loved receiving her update letters when she was able to send them. You could almost hear her voice telling her story the McEvoy way!! If there is anything that we can do please let us know.. If you ever bring the kids back to Canada to visit we would love to help entertain them.
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you and the Kids.
Please give Alison a hug for me !! as I think she is there until Monday.
Brian - Suzanne - Michael
Atkinson
Art and Bernice Atkinson
Gary and Sandra Atkinson and Family
Cindy (Atkinson) and Shawn Poncsak and Family
On Saturday August 15, 2009,
Cheryl Kukurudz (Aplin) said:
Tim and family,
Hearing the news of Jen's passing was so shocking, it rocked me to the core. Jen and I were in high school together. Know that we are praying for strength and peace for you at this difficult time and as your children grow.
On Sunday August 16, 2009,
Braj & Vipin Varshney said:
Dear Tim, We are sorry to hear about Jennifer. She was so fun loving person. We knew her from our daughter Renu. When we saw her first - years ago we came to like her right away. We always enjoyed her visit to our house. She was a real down to earth type person. She was a good mother to Joshua, Keely and Spencer. We pray God to give peace to her soul and give strength to all of you to face this hard time. She will be missed by all of us. In the end Tim be strong for children. You are a good father and now you will be a great mother too.
Love
Braj & Vipin Varshney
On Sunday August 16, 2009,
Ken and Tammy Black said:
Tim and Family, We are so sad to hear of Jens' passing. We were truly hoping she would beat the odds, for if someone had the will and fight that was Jen. We were shocked to hear that of all people Jen had cancer and then to hear of her passing that was truly a sad day. We went to Neelin with Jen. She was always smiling and laughing; never in a bad mood. Ken still remembers the day that Jen showed up to his work looking at him over the lathe with her husband. After so many years she still looked as young, with that bright smile of hers. It was great to see her again. May the laughter and smiles forever stay with you and your children. Ken and Tammy Black, Brandon, MB
On Sunday August 16, 2009,
Leanne Pinard Tyler said:
I went to high school with Jennifer and, although we did not keep in touch over the years, I am deeply saddened to hear of her death. My heart aches for her family; may her children always remember how much she loved them.
On Monday August 17, 2009,
Mark Mackay said:
It breaks my heart to hear of Jen's passing. My deepest condolences to you Tim, your kids and to the Mcevoy and Boekeman Families.
On Tuesday August 18, 2009,
Beth Burnett nee (Young) said:
To the Boekeman and McEvoy families, my deepest sympathys. Jen was a wonderful friend from years gone by and such a warm, happy and gentle soul. Although I lost touch with her over the years, my most favorite memories remain strong. I have many fond photographs of the years lived in the "treehouse" and from years lived in that small two bedroom on 21st. What good times we all had. The smile the laugh the kindness the friendship, I will never forget. Rest in peace my dear old friend.
On Sunday August 22, 2010,
Roz Boekeman said:
It's been just over a year and I still can't fathom it all. How many more tears until I can accept? This horror that visited us and took our precious girl so swiftly has left me more shaken than any grotesque movie. I know we will see you again, but the wait is horrible. Love you always possum.
On Wednesday November 2, 2011,
Catriarna said:
Jen, i have lived in dally my whole life, but never have i met such a wonderful person as you. Even though i was only young when you passed, it was very easy to see how you would be missed by everyone you met. Keeley looks just like you and has your smile; the one that can bring joy to people's hearts, you are such a wonderful and beautiful person and even now you are still thought of daily. all my love Catriarna
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